What Do Men Want From Women? – Give Your Man What He Needs
Men can be quite a mystery sometimes. Women are often left dazed and confused by men’s attitudes and behaviors. The differences between men and women are huge. So, what do men want from women, anyway?
When looking at what men really want, it’s pretty basic. They want to be allowed to be a man. They want to be with a woman who allows them to be masculine. A man wants to know he can protect and provide for his family. He wants to be able to keep his woman happy.
A man is proud of his masculinity and is looked up to by others for being masculine. He needs to at least have the appearance of being the ‘alpha male’ in the relationship. Do not make the mistake of treating your man like you would one of your girlfriends, ladies, they won’t appreciate it at all!
A secondary thing men want from a woman is respect. If you are constantly nagging him because of all he can’t or doesn’t do well, you are damaging more than his ego. You are killing the relationship, one nagging word at a time. Not all men are good at all things. So learn to enjoy the things he does well and make sure he knows you are proud of him. Show him respect for what he tries to do, whether he does it well or not.
What Men Want From Women
It might be easier to tell you what men don’t want from women.
Men don’t want a woman who gives them no emotional support. A man needs to know his woman is loyal to him and him alone. Support is very important to a man, so give out words of encouragement as often as you can.
Men don’t want a woman who is clingy and needy. Your man needs to know you can stand beside him. He does not want to carry you through life, or drag you along. A woman can be feminine and still be a strong helper to her mate.
Men don’t want a woman who brings no security to the relationship. If your man has to constantly wonder who you are with, where you are and what you are doing, they aren’t going to be happy. They want someone they know will not cheat on them, will be honest with them, and who will be reliable.
These are all the things a man doesn’t want, so just what do men want from women? A man, quite simply, wants a woman who is strong and independent. He needs her to be secure in the relationship and within herself. A man must have a woman who will support him and appreciate his masculine side.
copyright by Gene Elias
February 17th, 2010