Starting Conversations With Pick Up Lines
March 3rd, 2010
Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.
For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such as:
“Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?”
“Your name must be Gillet, because you’re the best a man can get.”
“I lost my number, can I have yours?”
Let’s face it - if you use lines like these on a girl, she’s not going to give you the time of day.
Consequently, bad pick up lines get too much attention, therefore everyone thinks all pick up lines are lame.
However, this is not correct.
Using good pick up lines actually assist you in picking up a woman.
Keep in mind that the purpose of using a pick up line is to begin a conversation.
It is as simple as that, merely to engage a woman in conversation.
After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.
But if you can’t get the conversation started, then you can do anything else!
You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.
Do you know that good pick up lines do just that?
Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.
That is why it’s important to know one or two good pick up lines that actually WORK. Because for those situations where you can’t be original, you need something to help you take action!
Keep in mind that women are wise; never use these types of pick up lines, since they get you nowhere at all.
“Do I know you from somewhere?”
This is a lame pick up line, and all women know it, you might think yourself clever, but they will not.
Other unimpressive pick up lines include complimenting a woman on her clothing, asking for directions and telling her she looks like a movie star.
Why?
Because these things do not ENGAGE the girl. Once she responds, there is nothing to keep her in the conversation.
Good pick up lines avoid “yes and no” answers. They are about getting the girl to think about her response, evoking an emotional reaction, and making her WANT to continue to communicate with you.
How can you engage a woman in conversation with you?
Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.
So to give you an example, you could say something like: “Hey, can I get your opinion on something real quick? Do you think it’s wierd for a woman to try and get pregnant because she wants her baby to be born under a certain astrological sign? I really want to hear a woman’s perspective on this.”
Then follow up with a short story of how a woman may want her and her children’s zodiac sign to be compatible, so they interact well together throughout their lives.
This leads to all kinds of different conversation topics, things like:
1. Relationships
2. Astrology
3. Marriage
4. Pregnancy
5. Children
The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:
“Are you a believer in astrology?” (This can begin conversations about destiny and fate.)
“What sign are you?” (this leads into your sign compatibility with her - HINT: no matter what her sign is, you’re compatible!)
“Are you fond of children? You seem very nurturing.”
This could go on forever, surely, you get the idea.
So as you can see, this pick up line is designed to pull the girl into a deep and interesting conversation, and gives you the opportunity to get to know her better and allow her to become familiar with you.
This is how conversations are started!
Once you reach this point, ask for her telephone number and set up your first date.
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